Let's talk about the silver hair trend.....
While silver/grey hair is beautiful (when done well) its damn near impossible to get unless, your hair is already platinum blonde. (this means WHITE! Like Kalessi white, SNOW WHITE, wedding gown WHITE)
On that note: To get white, its going to take many, MANY processes & lots of cash money unless, you're a natural blonde.
Its on too rare of an occasion that I get emails saying
"how much would it cost to do this to my hair?"
color by @bescene
Well first of all, what does your hair look like now? How many layers of salon or box color are on it? Just asking someone for a price and forcing a picture on them is kind of presumptuous not to mention rude. But thats a whole different blog post.
If your hair is ANY KIND of dark brown to black, all natural or not. (its usually not)
The awnser is NO.
NO you can not have that in one sitting
NO you probably wont have that in the next year.
NO I'm not going to fry your hair.
Well, I'm not Harry Potter & my color brush isn't a magic wand, thats why.
WHAT CAN YOU HAVE?
Red or Orange. You choose.
So you're unhappy with my response? You decide to stylist hop? You decide to go to Sally's & try that really cool toner you saw in that YouTube video that uses DOUBLE 20 VOLUME?
Let me show you what happens when you do that & DON'T do your research.
YES that is a bowl full of hair. NO it was not cut off, shaved off or by any other means purposely taken off. It BROKE off.
All of the Olaplex in the world isn't going to save your hair when you have been to 3 different stylist before me & have no clue of your hair history, or leave out the parts where you used that Sally's toner.
The hair in this bowl belongs to a client of mine, lets call her "Mrs.T" & before you get all bent out of shape she gave me discretion to write this blog & tell her story.
Mrs.T is Cuban. I know you might be thinking, what does that have to do with it? Well it has everything to do with it. She went to 3 different stylist asking for white/silver hair. Each stylist just did a full hilight. Now Mrs.T has literally 5 heads of the thickest hair you've ever seen, except just on her head.
So you can imagine how just a full hilight may have left her feeling....mmm....unfulfilled. So on to the next stylist she went....
Again, another head of hilights, she's a bit lighter at this point....but it's still not enough so she headed to her 3rd stylist where she again received a full head of hilights. All the while using Wella's T-18 toner in between, which uses DOUBLE 20 VOLUME developer. Clients or future clients who are reading this, i STRONGLY advise NOT trying that at home.
Finally Mrs.T found me, when she got to me her hair was strong enough to handle one all over lightening session (with 3 different formulas of lightener) & a good ashy toner that came in the form of Redken Shades EQ, to get her as close to her goal as possible. All of her formulas included Olaplex & we did a stand alone treatment on her as well.
She loves it! "This is the closest to my goal I have gotten!" she exclaims.
She leaves happy, Olaplex #3 in hand.
About 4 weeks go by & I get a message from Mrs.T. She still loves her hair, but she is seeing some warmth & was wondering if we could just hilight those out.
My first concern is for the integrity of her hair, we set an appointment & she comes in, her hair is actually in great shape! I go through & meticulously foil out any warm pieces I see being very careful not to touch ANY WHITE. I used 5 volume developer with my lightener & olaplex.
She lifts well, hair is still strong, I mix up her toner (add the Olaplex) & get to rinsing. I'm noticing a lot of hair in the sink, but think nothing of it because she has A LOT of hair which means, more than average hair loss.
Toned her with Schwarzcopf, absolute whites in Grey Lilac & Slate Grey with 10 volume & Olaplex. Max of 7 minutes this toner sits on her hair.
As I'm rinsing more & more hair is coming out. I won't lie this is where I started sweating a little bit.
I put Aquage equalizing detangler in her & GENTEELLY brush her hair out at the bowl with a wet brush.
Well, the hair keeps coming, so much so that it fills the bowl you see above.
I let Mrs.T know the WHOLE TIME what is happening, she's nervous.....I'm nervous. I smother her hair in a masque & send her on her way, no heat for that hair today. I advise her of the same and tell her Olaplex is going to be her best friend.
She sends me a text 2 days later. "Well, the verdict is in, do you want to see?"
I literally cringe at what I'm about to see.
She loves it!!! She said its definitely lighter (weigh wise) than it was before, but its just like it thinned it out a bit.
If ANY white girl had this happen to them, they would be rocking a pixie or may even be bald.
6 months goes by & she makes an appointment to come back in. All the white still referring people to me left & right.
This is what her hair looked like when she came back 6 months later....
And this is what kind of breakage she had......
Not just in that one spot, but in multiple places.
She had been taking great care of it, using Olaplex, good shampoo & conditioner & NO HEAT.
We were Finally able to get her what she wanted. A grey to silver melt.
I used Schwarzcopf absolute whites in Slate Grey & Grey Lilac with 10 volume developer melted into Kenra Charcoal on some strands & Paul Mitchell Pop XG Steel & Joico Titanium on other strands. All formulas included Olaplex.
The outcome was stunning.
Moral of the story??
RESEARCH any and all hairdressers in your area when asking for a specialty color.
LISTEN to what they are telling you, often times these kinds of colors are a process.
DON'T throw a fit when you can't have what you want....thats bad form. We are the licensed professionals & I promise we know what we are doing.
DON'T believe everything you see on YouTube.
Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @CryistalChaos to see all kinds of fun hair art.